In Others’ Words: Reading the same kind of book as me differently


I have two favorite questions I love to ask my author friends:

1. What are you writing?  It’s always fun to listen to their answers and to be amazed by their creativity. I usually walk away thinking, “I wish I’d thought of that story!”

2. What are you reading? Asking another writer “What are you reading” is a dangerous question. Inevitably, my To Be Read (TBR) pile grows taller because someone mentions a book that I have to read also and I go and order a copy. Of course, it’s always fun to discuss the books after we’ve read them: what did we like, what didn’t we like, what we would do differently, what we learned that challenged us a writers — yes, those, “Oh, I wish I’d written that scene/character/beginning/ending” conversations. 

It’s true: No two persons ever read the same book. I might love a book and my friend might not make it through chapter one. Or my friend might love the dialogue and I might be caught up in the description. You just never know why a book is a couldn’t-put-it-down great read for one person and a couldn’t-get-past-page-one snoozer for another person.

As an author I’ve learned that readers see things in my stories that I didn’t even know I put in them … and overlook things — symbols, significant lines of dialogue — that I wove oh so carefully into my novels. You know what I’ve learned? It is what it is … and I have to let it be just that because no two persons ever read the same book.

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  1. May 18, 2015, 5:58 am   /  Reply

    Another thing, to add…it can be a different me, reading the same book today and yesterday. I have drawn drastically different things from the same words, sometimes only months apart.

    I would very strongly recommend Al Sever’s “Xin Loi, Viet Nam” as a well-written and thoughtful journey into the bright heart of a decent man in a soul-searing time.

    Recommended to me by a former student was the Qu’ran…and I’m glad I took the time to read it. Knowing the heart of a people makes it easier to like them.

    • May 18, 2015, 10:39 am   /  Reply

      As expected, Andrew, you bring something so unexpected and different to the conversation.

  2. Susan
    May 18, 2015, 6:14 am   /  Reply

    I completely agree, Beth. I love hearing what different people grab from books. I’m amazed sometimes at what they saw that I didn’t!

    • May 18, 2015, 10:39 am   /  Reply

      This is exactly why I loved reading (and writing) and discussing books … gaining others’ perspectives.

  3. May 18, 2015, 7:27 am   /  Reply

    Great post, Beth. And so true. There’s one book in particular that I didn’t really like the first time through. Then, re-reading it a few years later, I understood it in a completely different way and really enjoyed the story.

    Let’s see: Book recommended to me recently: Scary Close by Donald Miller. I won this one recently, so I’m looking forward to reading it.

    Books I would recommend: From the Start by Melissa Tagg and How to Catch a Prince, by Rachel Hauck. I enjoyed both of these books as they explored deeper issues through the context of story.

    • May 18, 2015, 10:40 am   /  Reply

      Scary Close — haven’t heard of that one, Jeanne.
      And yes, Melissa and Rachel are both excellent writers.

  4. May 18, 2015, 10:47 am   /  Reply

    So true about rdg. the same book differently–and differently at different times. It’s amazing how some people I meet initially and think I know change largely in my perception on knowing them longer. Not you–that was a good thing from the get-go, but I’m shocked sometimes at how I miss small important clues to major treasure hunts–but thankful I eventually get there.

  5. Bernadette DesChamps
    May 18, 2015, 10:58 am   /  Reply

    One of the great things about art and literature is that each person brings an individual viewpoint and thus gains a uniquely personal experience. That’s something I’ve enjoyed about my book club, so many opinions and insights I might not have gleaned on my own.

    A friend recently recommended Hotel at the Corner of Bitter and Sweet by Jamie Ford. Set in Seattle during the Japanese internments of WWII, it told the story of a young Chinese boy and a Japanese girl who became best friends in the face of prejudice. I loved it and pass on the recommendation.

    I’d also recommend The First Gardener by Denise Hildreth Jones. I chose this for book club this last month. If you like something deep, hard, real, and redemptive, this book will resonate. It inspired rich discussion and encouraged healing.

    • May 18, 2015, 12:08 pm   /  Reply

      I did a mother-daughter book club for a while with my youngest daughter. Really enjoyed that — hearing the perspectives of the moms and the younger girls.
      Thanks for the recommendations, Bernadette.

      • Bernadette DesChamps
        May 18, 2015, 5:23 pm   /  Reply

        You’re welcome. I love the mother-daughter idea! 🙂

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